tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8919216617130786696.post8115266831532762365..comments2023-11-05T04:34:01.025-06:00Comments on The B Channel: I May Have Given Myself a Headache Writing This...Becky Heinekehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13761434453341152193noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8919216617130786696.post-82728526139401396432013-02-08T11:42:17.754-06:002013-02-08T11:42:17.754-06:00ok, there we have something in common again ... th...ok, there we have something in common again ... the "if that one thing happens/I could do that one thing"- part of our personality. :D<br /><br />Annie SashaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8919216617130786696.post-68869839659951644932013-02-06T09:06:05.103-06:002013-02-06T09:06:05.103-06:00(Every time I write about a book, I feel guilty fo...(Every time I write about a book, I feel guilty for not doing it yet, Leslie!! At least you know it's on my mind... :D)Becky Heinekehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13761434453341152193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8919216617130786696.post-32561937295378032412013-02-05T19:55:14.410-06:002013-02-05T19:55:14.410-06:00Still waiting for you to join Goodreads. *grumble...Still waiting for you to join Goodreads. *grumble*Lesliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15267720022674584449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8919216617130786696.post-28079904925615510572013-02-05T13:56:04.950-06:002013-02-05T13:56:04.950-06:00This isn't 100% related, but close enough. I ...This isn't 100% related, but close enough. I found it on Quora today and enjoyed it: <br /><br /><a href="http://www.smbc-comics.com/index.php?db=comics&id=2722" rel="nofollow">http://www.smbc-comics.com/index.php?db=comics&id=2722</a><br /><br />:)Becky Heinekehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13761434453341152193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8919216617130786696.post-56366931210712984592013-02-05T13:53:00.997-06:002013-02-05T13:53:00.997-06:00I've never been a huge "what if" per...I've never been a huge "what if" person in terms of looking at the past. It's a rare thing for me to think, "If I had [whatever] to do over again..."<br /><br />But I *do* think a lot about "what ifs" with regard to the future. Like, "If I could only do this one thing then that means this other thing will happen..." <br /><br />I think there is a lot of comfort in thinking that no one path through life is the "right" one, and yet I also think there's comfort in knowing that it's okay to wonder from time to time how things might be different. And that maybe it's even *healthy* to wonder about things, because if you're always 100% content in the present, how can you ever grow as a person??<br /><br />For me, what I have a hard time reconciling is pushing myself to grow and change BUT not beating myself up all the time in the present when things don't seem to be going my way. It's a fine balance! :) Becky Heinekehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13761434453341152193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8919216617130786696.post-39585246598840379402013-02-05T11:22:35.568-06:002013-02-05T11:22:35.568-06:00oh yeah ... especially at the point where I am now...oh yeah ... especially at the point where I am now I wonder a lot about the "what if"s of my life ... tho it doesn't help - neither with a solution nor the mood<br /><br />I try to find peace in the idea that I might not always have taken the "wrong" path.<br /><br />but hey that is just me ... and I have always been the "what if"-kind of person - before and after every decision<br /><br />Annie SashaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com